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Absolutely different people turn to fortunetellers for help.
Everyone has his own problems and lots of questions. But we
can divide all the clients into relative groups, depending
on their behavoiur and manner of communication. There will
be six groups in all.
Group 1: The Deaf
The main psychological aim of these people can be charcterized
by one phrase: "I want to hear only that I want!".
As a rule, such people start telling at once about themselves
in detail and certainly about the problems, right away they
list the possible ways of solving them and besides chose the
preferable ones. It is important for the deaf that the professional
confirms their wit, talent and natural gifts.
Don't be afraid! Such a type scarcely will grieve if the fortuneteller
doesn't confirm his outstanding potentialities, believes and
some facts. The deaf are well-disposed and don't take it serious.
Usually such people pay no heed to the embarrassing information,
accepting only what is conforming to the idea of themselves.
They often go to fortunetellers for that and will easily tell
you their predictions. Generally such people like to attract
attention.
So, to begin with, show the client that you have evaluated
his appearance and you'll give answers to all the questions.
After it the contact will be established and and you will
be able to start telling him fortunes.
Group 2: The Dumb
The main aim of such clients can be characterized by the phrase:
"I'm going to examine what kind of predictor you are!"
Such kind of people don't express their troubles, getting
off with the excises, such as "You are the predictor
- you can see", "tell me what is happening in my
life", "If I tell you everything, it will be too
clear!". They refuse to trust the predictor and make
us feel that unsolved question is your unfulfilled duty. What
kind of specialist are you? With wry face, they are always
ready to go away.
Such people occasionally show distrust and emotional exertion.
Their problematic inner world is especially valuable to them.
They aren't ready to pen their soul, voluntarily show somebody
their "property". From their point of view it must
be something that will protect from mockeries, advice, misunderstanding
and other. That is why if the specialist can invade his "prohibited
area" unaided and even regardless of "reflex"
resistance, they are ready to respect him as they respect
the alien force. When they come to you next time, the former
Dumb start talking to you, become less mistrustful.
Unconfident specialists sometimes try to put off the beginning
of card-reading itself in order to make the stubborn blab.
Such approach sometimes works, especially if the card-reader
tries to overcome the purpose at distrust, stimulating any
pleasant emotions of the client. They can be evoked by well-disposed
statement about him, his things, common friends etc.
Quite often there is sense to ask obstinate client to recall
at least one case of successful card-reading. Such memories
can plunge him into the atmosphere of the past, make him experience
it once more and project the positive experience to the present
and namely recognize it as the familiar fortune-teller. There
are no secrets from him! But if there was no such fact, it
may be an occasion for him to think that the problems may
be lie in his unwillingness to tell his question.
Group 3: The Blind
Psychological expectation of this group can b e characterized
by the phrase: "Open my eyes!". Something very exciting
has happened in their lives. And not necessarily it was something
serious. Incompleteness of the event has created the feeling
of injustice happening to them. It emphatically pushes them
to look for the truth, what makes them desperate and prepared
to anything. Rather often people who doubted esoteric knowledge
decide to turn to alternative specialists as an exception.
They want to hear almost any information from them, just wanting
it help them overcome the state of constant tension and neurosis.
In such cases the maximum of professionalism and responsibility
is required for predictions and magical actions
Group 4: The True Realists
The main phsychological aim of these clients can be characterized
by the phrase: "What should I do?" They always have
not far-fetched, but actual problem and they don't know how
to treat it, how to act and what consequences should he wait
for. Such "realists" believe that any problem has
correct and perfect solution. But as long as it is not solved,
"realists" can't be self-confident and satisfied.
That's why they go to the fortuneteller. But if the life does
not prove their expectations about the perfect solution, found
as a result of card-reading, it can turn into a real catastrophe
for such clients. And they can be right, accusing sometimes
the card-reader as they think it is 'right' that everybody
must be responsible for his actions.
As a result of not very exact cad-reading, it is easy to lose
the clients which fall under this type. That's why it is better
to try to make them share responsibility for prediction with
you. It is necessary just to have a talk with them - "to
collect anamnesis". The trick of sharing responsibility
is especially important for the beginner as it allows to reduce
the risk of incorrect prediction and possible harm to minimum.
But there are tricks of such great demand in the work with
"true realists" that they are used even by specialists.
All "true realists" expect from the esoteric specialists
to put everything in order, to give sense to absurd. That's
why if in the process of card-reading the client makes sure
that he and his ancestors, karma are partially responsible
for his incurable disease, this conviction will seriously
relieve his feelings and will let him accept his fate as it
is.
Group 5: Charismatics
Psychological expectations of the people of such kind can
be characterized by the phrase: "Confirm that all is
fine with me". Most often our colleagues apply with such
purpose, especially healers. They often notice that their
failures, misfortune and emotional disorders come as a result
of negative influence of other people, position of stars etc.
That's why the clear themselves attending different courses
on self-perfection. So, they think, their development t takes
place and their lives improve. Charismatics are interested
in such questions like: "Do I have esoteric abilities?",
"Who I was in the previous life?" etc.
The spiritual practice gives them the confidence, sense of
protection, prosperity. Such clients are extremely preoccupied
with their diagnostics and prevention of defects. The person
who has come to ask: "Is there a black spell on me?"
is usually a charismatic or is under influence pf such.
These people need clear and correct card-reading without any
tricks and psychological methods etc.
Group 6: Bored Ladies
The main psychological aim of these clients can be characterized
by the phrase: "Tell me something interesting".
Life of such people is already stable. But they are bored
with this stability and definiteness. But the change of life
is always mated with difficulties and responsibility. That's
why it is more pleasant and safe to go to the car-reader and
get to know whether the life itself prepares some interesting
changes. But with the same probability she could go to her
pedicurist.
Rather common is the situation when the lady comes with somebody.
Like the Dumb, they often can't ask their questions, because
they simply don't exist. The card-reader has to describe the
whole situation herself. It is usually positive from the point
of view of the social status of the person and personal achievements.
But they always want to get more than they deserve. And their
behavoiur proves it. If stunning contacts, presents, surprises
are not found in the process of card-reading, they start putting
belated questions, connected with their hollow dreams. For
not touching client's feelings you may say this question will
be considered next time. And now it is unsuitable time for
card-reading, the nest visitor is waiting etc.
It is worse when the "bored lady" becomes a permanent
client. What should be told? There is nothing worse than dispelling
hollow dreams, illusions and propose the people change their
lives what they never will risk to do.
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